TWO-WAY THING.
Many things in life need 2 ways effort. If you do not receive the same treatment, think twice before blaming others. In many relationships, we usually expect and think it is ok to let the other party put on effort instead of us.
Years ago, I have adjusted my mindset that I do what I need to and without forcing others. I would have no regret on just anything if I do play my part in a certain relationship. If it not working, then I just need to let go. This is life. We could not please everyone but we remain those who have the same wavelength with us to be true to ourselves.
The same theory applied to Married Relationships.
When a marriage is having a problem, it is so easy to blame the other party. When you stepped out and seething as 3rd party, it will be more clearer. I cannot guarantee that I will be the most reasonable person on earth but I am glad that I have the ability and trust from people in my friends’ circle. Whenever they need advice or help, I will give in my perspective that hope could help them to see it broadly. This is also one of my resolution for 2022 that I do hope to help more people who need mental support by talking it out and together we changed for a better ‘ME’ and not ‘Us’. Change can only be permanent when you do it for yourself. When I do need a 3rd eye, I do hope my friends’ circle can do the same to me. We need each other to see things. This is why we cannot live our lives alone.
2022 is the year with a lot of deep conversation with my friend’s circle because we are no longer looking at the surface relationship support system in our life at this moment. We need to grow together and be happy together.
All About Life and Balance 