Do our part first instead of pointing fingers at others regardless of any relationship.
Recently, I just have a few people come to me for their marital problems and educating their teenage child. We are just sharing a very deep conversation here. And I’m glad we have learned something through the conversation and started to practice it to make a difference. However, some people might think this will affect my perspective on marriage. It does not though. For me, this is both parties’ issue when getting along with it. It may not work on this person but does not mean everyone. All we need to know is to meet the right fit person to live a life together.
I do believe there is no perfect person in life however there is a compromised person instead. I would not tolerant of someone if it is for a long term especially my partner who I need to live with together every day. I could tolerant of thing that is temporary to make the thing work better. We could tolerant our family as we do not live together but there is always a bottom line.
Child Education is not only limited to academics. Recently, my nephew has reacted differently to his parents. He started to throw some emotional words that he may feel unfair and pissed off with their parents during their young time. Through my education job for a year in the Enhancement Center, I felt kids’ feelings cannot be neglected even if they are still young kids as 3 years old. However, it is never too late to change and all we need is time. I am working closely with my sister to see what we could do and talk to him peacefully.
I am also looking around for marriage counsel for someone before coming to the divorce stage. I always believe that everyone deserves a chance to make a change but not a second. Regardless of any relationship, I do believe it is not easy to get along with but most important if you meet the right person who accepts who you are and is compromised, the relationship can be getting along well. Even with counselors, it is still very much dependent on both parties if they wanted to make it work. I feel the same about my relationship with family, my siblings, friends, and some special friends.
In the end, it is all about respecting each other to meet the balance in a relationship. I always agree that 3rd parties seething clearer and I do hope I have 3rd eyes on my case too.
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