True Friends.

How many friends that do you have now? What is your definition on friend?

In my 20’s, I would say I have many friends. Indeed, hi bye is also consider my friends. When someone that I know who I called a friend, I will cater my time for a meet. Therefore, my life is super busy with gathering and meet up if not everyday but every other day.

When time goes on, I have changed my perspective on ‘Friends’. Especially when come to workspace where it has given me a very good training to analyze someone by their body language and their words. You just cannot avoid to meet some good and bad people in your life. All you need to do is just get in touch with people that you want to and feel comfortable with.

Moving to my 30’s, I think I have cut down lot on my gathering. Still, I am super busy meeting friends, the true friends that I would call now. 😊😊😊 Due to moving to a more senior work life and see things differently. I started to value every single person come to my life regardless how long we have known each. Time is not the main factor to justify a friendship. It’s all about click and compatible. Sometime it does not matter if we are from different background, culture, personality and age. It’s all about compromising and give & take on the good and bad of a person. In fact, I have and I love to mingle with people from different background and cultures. This is how we learned about others and respect each different.

Friendship is just about Give, Love, Trust and Listen.

Im grateful that I still have a numbers of friends that I could call Besties that understand and accept who am I. They just know when is the right time to get me and leave me alone. People always say you are lucky if you have 1 or 2 best friends but I am so proud to say I have more than that. Truly bless and I always believe in just treat the way you want people to treat you. As simple as that.

Be Genuine. Be Yourself. Be Truthful. Be Real. 😁😁😁

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